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Why Angry Woman Happy When running mate?

Men have always been known as someone who is difficult to express feelings. They do not want to seem whiny or sound like a woman because expressing how they feel. Sometimes they do it to avoid the debate and move away from the problem. In fact, on the part of women, we are much more satisfied with our relationship when couples want to show what makes them angry or unhappy, according to a study from Harvard University.

"For women, it may look angry spouse may reflect the level of emotional involvement in their relationship, even in difficult times," says Shiri Cohen, leader of the study. Are not women always crave recognition of their emotional relationship as a couple? This is in line with the dissatisfaction that is often experienced by women when their partner is emotionally withdrawn and chose to avoid conflict.

The researchers discovered this fact when studied 156 heterosexual couples of socioeconomic backgrounds and different cultures. Each of the respondents were asked to describe when their partner was annoyed, disappointed, or frustrated in recent months. These pairs then come to observe their statements with each other, and asked to discuss it. Researchers record the session when the discussion took place.

After that each pair watched footage of their discussions with their respective spouses, and assess how they feel with a rating scale from "very negative" to "very positive". By using this assessment, the researchers selected six clips from the footage that has positive and negative emotions are the highest of each pair. Study participants were then asked to fill out a survey describing their feelings, their satisfaction with the overall relationship, and whether they felt their partner enough to empathize.

As expected, it appears that a direct relationship satisfaction was associated with man's ability to read their partner's emotions correctly. But surprisingly, the women were much more satisfied with their relationship if their partner is upset, than if they're happy.Contrary to what is felt by women, men are much dissatisfied with the relationship if her partner is not happy. Higher levels of satisfaction when they find their partner happy.

According to Cohen, these findings demonstrate the benefits when we try to be more empathetic to your partner.